DBT New York

DBT Therapy Provided in Southampton, New York on the Shinnecock Reservation

DBT New York

What is the 24-Hour Rule in DBT?

The 24-hour rule is a guideline designed to support the therapeutic relationship while fostering accountability. If a client engages in harmful behaviors, such as self-harm, DBT therapists may refrain from discussing the incident for 24 hours. This approach is not about punishment but about encouraging clients to rely on the skills they have developed in therapy. During this time, clients are given space to reflect on their actions, consider what led to the behavior, and identify alternative coping strategies they could use in the future.

By postponing the discussion, therapists shift the focus from the immediate aftermath of the behavior to skill-building and self-reliance. This pause allows clients to process their emotions independently, reinforcing the idea that they have the tools needed to manage distress. Over time, this practice helps clients build healthier coping mechanisms, foster a sense of personal responsibility, and reduce reliance on external validation or intervention. The 24-hour rule ultimately strengthens the therapeutic alliance by maintaining boundaries and prioritizing the client’s growth.

What Does DBT Therapy Treat?

DBT is a versatile and evidence-based therapy that addresses a wide range of emotional and behavioral challenges, including:

  • Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

  • Anxiety and depression

  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

  • Eating disorders

  • Substance use issues

  • Self-harming behaviors

  • Chronic interpersonal conflicts

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by intense emotions or struggling with unhelpful habits, DBT offers practical tools to navigate life’s difficulties.

DBT New York
DBT New York

Why Do I Need DBT?

Life can be overwhelming, especially when emotions feel all-consuming. DBT equips you with the tools to manage distress, improve relationships, and find inner peace. Through its structured approach, DBT helps you identify unhelpful patterns, learn to respond more effectively to challenges, and build emotional resilience.

If you find yourself struggling to regulate emotions, manage impulsive behaviors, or maintain fulfilling connections, DBT may be the solution you need. It’s not just about treating symptoms; it’s about creating a life worth living by empowering you with the skills to navigate life’s ups and downs with confidence and clarity.

At Blossom Counseling Services, we believe in the transformative power of DBT to help you unlock your potential. Our compassionate therapists are trained to guide you every step of the way, offering personalized care tailored to your unique needs. Whether you’re new to DBT or looking to deepen your practice, we’re here to help you flourish.

What Are the 7 Crucial DBT Strategies?

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Mindfulness

Staying present in the moment without judgment.

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Emotional Regulation

Understanding and managing intense emotions effectively.

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Distress Tolerance

Navigating crises without making the situation worse.

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Interpersonal Effectiveness

Building and maintaining healthy relationships.

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Validation

Acknowledging your emotions and experiences as real and significant.

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Behavioral Chain Analysis

Identifying patterns that lead to problematic behaviors and finding ways to interrupt them.

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Dialectical Thinking

Embracing “both/and” perspectives to reduce conflict and foster growth.

DBT New York
DBT New York
DBT New York

What Our Clients Say

We often hear the following feedback from people about working with our healers.

  • We are kind
  • We set them on an incredible path
  • We have the ability to settle them down
  • We give them the clarity they are seeking
  • We built their ability to notice when they are getting stressed so they can better manage it

Professionals That Refer Clients To Us

Here are a handful of the professionals in our community that refer clients our way.

 

Get Started

You may call, text message, email, or fill out the form to reach us. We will respond within 48 hours, Monday through Friday.

Call/Text
631-209-7815

Email
aiyana@blossomsd.org

Location:

Southampton, New York

 

We Will Help You Find Your Fit

We know that looking for a counselor can feel overwhelming.

We are here to help guide you to the counselor that is best for your needs. If that counselor turns out to
not be in our practice, that's okay. We know great counselors that we'd be happy to refer you to.

What’s most important to us is that you get connected with the help you need. We are here for you.